I just want to cry! Cycling retrograde, the young man answers the reason of emotional breakdown online.

　　CCTV News:Not long ago (March 25), the traffic police in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province stopped a young man who was riding a retrograde bicycle while investigating traffic violations. Who knows, the young man suddenly collapsed after making a phone call.

　　Fu Chaogang, police officer of Hangzhou Traffic Police Culture and Education Squadron: "His mood was relatively calm at first, and then he took a phone call. After answering the phone, his mood suddenly came out of generate."

　　A young man riding a retrograde bike: "I’m really sorry. It’s the first time I’ve done this kind of thing. I’ve been urging me to leave quickly. I have something to do when I go back after working overtime. Please, let me do anything. Please, I will pay the fine, and I can give you my ID card. I beg you to let me go. I dare not, I am bored, I don’t want it. "

　　Fu Chaogang, police officer of Hangzhou Traffic Police Culture and Education Squadron: "This young man gave a cry and ran to the bridge. Our first reaction was whether this young man had any suicidal thoughts. We immediately ran over and stopped him."

　　(people’s) police/policeman: "calm down, it’s nothing."

　　A young man riding a retrograde bikeI’m crazy. I’m under great pressure. I work overtime until eleven or twelve every day. My girlfriend didn’t bring the key and asked me to send it. I really don’t want to do this.

　　(people’s) police/policeman: "Here’s your ID card. Would you hurry to deliver the key?"

　　A young man riding a retrograde bike"I don’t, I just want to cry."

　　Policeman: "Where do you work? It’s okay for you to vent. We can all watch over you. You are stressed and normal. It’s okay to vent. If you vent normally, you can cry if you want. "

　　Fu Chaogang, police officer of Hangzhou Traffic Police Culture and Education SquadronAfter listening to what he told us, I put myself in another’s shoes. Now many people in society are under great pressure, and it is inevitable that their emotions will get out of control. Therefore, we want to sit on the ground and communicate with him intimately, and listen to him tell his own things like friends. I think this will make him feel much better. "

　　(people’s) police/policeman: "The most important thing is to adjust yourself. If you feel tired, take time off. Isn’t going to work for your own life?"

　　A young man riding a retrograde bike: "Go to work, I’m sorry for you. If it weren’t for you, I’d really feel bad. I really need to vent."

　　After the persuasion and companionship of the traffic police, the young man’s mood slowly calmed down and accepted the punishment of the traffic police.

　　Auxiliary Police: "Put your ID card in your pocket first, and then don’t drop it. It will be very troublesome to make it up."

　　A young man riding a retrograde bike: "Thank you for stopping my car."

　　Auxiliary Police: "Sit here and have a rest first."

　　A young man riding a retrograde bike: "I’m sorry, I usually hate others retrograde. I really can’t help it today. I am urging here and urging there. I originally wanted to go there. "

　　Auxiliary Police: "If you are tired, please take a vacation and have a rest. People should combine work and rest, grasp it well and pay attention to safety."

　　Young man answers the reason of emotional breakdown online

　　After this incident was fermented on the Internet, it triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Many people said that they can understand the young man’s feelings. What was the situation at that time that led to such a big mood fluctuation of the young man?

　　After the incident, the young man who rode retrograde answered the reason for his emotional breakdown on the Internet. He wrote, "I promised my girlfriend to have dinner together that day, and she didn’t bring the key." At that time, preparing for the launch of new projects needed joint debugging, and my colleagues were still waiting for me, so I was excited for a while. "

　　The young man also attributed everything to himself, and further explained that "my girlfriend didn’t do anything wrong, because she had been waiting for me for twenty minutes, so I was particularly anxious." "I was afraid of being seen by the boss, but the boss had already seen it. He didn’t blame me, but invited me to drink after work that day, saying that the pressure should not be so great, and I should rest when I have a rest." "I thank the traffic police for their help. I’m sorry for the trouble."

　　Between the lines, the young man is expressing his apologies and thanks to everyone involved. The doctor believes that the young man need not blame himself too much, because many people will encounter the reasons that induce his emotional collapse.

　　Hu Jianbo, Deputy Director of Mental Health Center of the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhejiang University School of Medicine"When several things happen at the same time and a choice must be made, we will be in an anxious state, so that when he encounters an emergency, he will suddenly blow his original cognition or this decision to a state of emotional collapse."

　　At the same time, Dr. Hu pointed out that at the turn of spring and summer, people’s emotions are easily affected by endocrine and metabolic changes. It is very important to accept, release and re-recognize negative emotions when the pressure is too great and the mood is unstable.

　　Event online fermentation netizens "empathize"

　　After the matter was fermented on the Internet, most netizens said it was understandable and even "empathetic". Many people think of the days they have experienced, and many people give advice to the young man on how to release the pressure. It was also observed that the young man didn’t say a word of dirty words within more than ten minutes of this incident, despite his extreme emotional collapse, which shows that he is still trying to restrain himself. Fu Chaogang, a traffic policeman in Hangzhou, has been quietly paying attention to the young man’s condition after the incident. Until he saw the young man’s post, his hanging heart was finally put down. Fu Chaogang wrote in his circle of friends, "I see that you are very good and strong, and your boss is also very good. I hope you can grow up. The whole Weibo is comforting you, including me. Live a good life, treat your loved ones well and work hard. Compare your heart. "

　　Fu Chaogang, police officer of Hangzhou Traffic Police Culture and Education Squadron: "I hope that through so many people caring for him and comforting him, he can feel the warmth of this society, and there is nothing he can’t pass."